The show Wife Swap au RTL2 f t is a term probably almost every 10 days for two women share their lives with their families and environment, with all the ups and downs of this experience will be documented by camera.
Apart from the fact that the show is often quite amusing and entertaining, I would like to once again take up the cudgels for them, as I think you insights on the one hand into the human psyche and on the other hand, provides the mechanisms and principles of the current Fernsehuntehaltung than almost any other format . Sure, reactions to extreme situations such as in a jungle camp can be instructive and entertaining, but especially in family matters are fundamental attitudes, perceptions and response patterns and individual differences in this respect very much. Just educators and teachers, who are confronted with people from all strata and groups and must work with them, can win here valuable insights into the causes of deep-rooted patterns of behavior of its clientele.
School and learning in different parental homes
That's how you determined after studying only a few episodes that are recorded just as regards education and setting the family home compared to school and learn the difference. Clear that a "better home" more emphasis on education, they surely would suspect so, but you can get on the other hand, parents of "bottom" face, the school seems to be very important. However, almost always find significant differences in the approach to promoting their own offspring: While there may simply knitted people regularly forcing their children to learn and sometimes - apparently mostly the mothers, and only rarely by the drudgery or the Play Station stressed fathers - cramming together with them (so I'd like to call this Sturr queries within the meaning of "If you have twelve times six things, well, how much did you then?"), go intellectuals often quite different approach to this task: they tinker with their children go with them or walk through the woods and tell them in passing things you want to know the children in the process or find interesting. This "natural" learning to learn and satisfy the innate curiosity of children absorb knowledge like a sponge eager. Moreover, such activities are just kids to a balance that allows ever learn.
If this week back tears flow in Wife Swap?
We see regularly intellectual mothers in the family of the housing estate in Wanne-Eickel almost missionary paint with the normally front of the TV hanging toddlers with finger paints, to demonstrate to the local family man, what's with his family in disarray. It is unfortunately all too often is a certain arrogance and a treat to watch from above by the intellectually superior sentient exchange mother.
The roles of respect intellectually inferior and is almost always directly at first. A point to go where the views are often extremely apart is the way time and again to hygiene. As disgusted one of the spots in the assigned bed, proclaimed as the others, how important cleanliness is, during the start Siff herabzutropfen from their kitchen cabinets. It seems, however, no direct relationship between cleanliness standards and intellect to give: we see the same bitch siffig Boller as the seemingly only in esoteric worlds beyond the normal everyday life reveling Reiki teacher.
Unfortunately, you also get some parents to face, obviously can not be bothered to have their children and "to party" by or "quiet times have had to" talk (after they had all afternoon mentally for their Play Station on the following for probably the have day pending job search preparation 
). Of course there are also parents living in poverty, which their children are at the heart be tight. Sorry, there is often a total helplessness the problem. They seem to think that through constrained learning, academic performance of children are improving, and is surprised that the stress acting to children's interests have not yet appear to have been blessed with significant learning progress.
Arrogance and incompetence
For the intellectually superior, especially when we call them intellectuals half times, as has been said often observed a form of arrogance. What is missing is what is known in Buddhism as compassion: Rather than rise above the obvious problems and shortcomings of others, but it is just an intellectual obligation to look behind things, and the mechanisms, such as insecurity, helplessness, serious own childhood, etc. to identify which result is that some people can only live as they live halt.
Knowledge for teachers and Pädadgogen
For me as a teacher to help such scenes to understand why many children do in our schools is so difficult. Finally seems to be a big part of kids' disturbed energetic "to (at times here from the traditional Chinese medicine to quote derived approach in which all mental health disorders and the optimal state can be interpreted as interference in the flow of energy). Causes are the oppressive and unnatural living conditions in the home of the children or the model of energy also disturbed parents. An atmosphere that seems of mutual respect and equal rights (yes, I mean absolutely between parents and children as equal family members, at least in terms of certain things) seems to be rare among German roofs, as well as a healthy diet, in fact, even eating some of nature that were found is to be uncommon in many places (although some still actually believe that what is concocted from some canned food and spices is healthy, because it at least not the tangled on other days pre-fast food is).
All the talk about the bad results of any studies Pisa is usually past the root causes, which are looking for in my experience, that is only partly in school, but instead just described rather in the real life of local children.
What can you do? As parents there is nothing more important and more decisive, as a time for children to have and to devote attention relaxed. By the way, are thereby even the "worst" children most likely to calm and balanced, so that parents can ever come to this relaxed attitude. With such growing up children that works with the school, then probably all by itself, if ultimately not that children are perhaps due to the idea that one can compensate for a lack of potential through the hard work always just used the wrong type of school where they are swamped. Finally, do not make any high school, some are holding other things.
As a teacher it is important to work through their own balance to a balancing effect on these children and to them that exemplify what it at home does not seem to give.
Our TV
But now back to Wife Swap, because I still had the top of possible insights into how modern television entertainment talk. First, yes RTL2 decide on which exchange two mothers, two worlds collide So what should one another. They try to meet current stereotypes and to incite them. Since it also certainly not the whole 10 days gets shown, but only short excerpts, RTL2 selected course, aware of the reactions, the nation gets to see what is not. This alone may be artificially either one of these or maybe even a contrary impression created.
One wonders also what an exhibition on perhaps may now have within their limited horizons somewhat satisfied hinlebenden the right to swap mothers or their families, after having publicly shows how naive, uneducated, siffig, disgusting, lazy, inhuman or abnormal them in the eyes of others. But of course it is this form of voyeurism the secret of all these series: The audience does not want harmony, not conflict resolution see, but prefer the ruthless clash, preferably with the psychological destruction of the weak, what is being celebrated by RTL2 sometimes elegant .
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